Why is it always something that is “lost”?
You don’t “lose” the first time you ride a bike or the first time you swim in the ocean or the first time you drive a car. You don’t “lose” your first kiss. You don’t “lose” the first time you fall in love. They just happen. They’re just life.
So why is it that the first time you have sex you’re supposed to have lost something so sacred?
Why is it that society acts like girls who have had sex have forever lost this mythical “virginity” and they are no longer as pure and complete as more “wholesome” girls?
Because if society acts like having sex makes you lose everything pure and moral about you, it makes you ashamed.
Because if women are afraid of their sexuality, you can control them.
If you don’t have sex, don’t have sex. If you do have sex, be careful.
But don’t act like you’ve lost or kept something based on your decision.
(Source: ijustreallyfuckinglovecats)
